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How we paid off $62,000 in 7 months

Posted by in Budgeting, Communication, Debt

Shortly after we got married, Andrea and I got serious about our finances and paid off all our debt. It only took us 7 months.While I’ve previously shared the method Andrea and I used to pay off all our debts, knowing what to do, and even how, isn’t always enough.  Sometimes we need to believe something is possible before we even try.Sometimes we need to know someone else has blazed a trail and succeeded, meaning it’s possible for us, too.Sometimes, we need hope.So in case this is one of those…read more

1 Phrase to Help Stop Fights Before They Start

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Some people, cough:mywife:cough, say I suffer from a condition called Resting Jerk-Face.Maybe you call it something different, but I’m sure you or someone you know also “suffers” from Resting Jerk Face (RJF). Know anyone who’s face naturally defaults to an angry or annoyed look? Yup, RJF.They can be witnessing a double-rainbow or at a friend’s birthday party and they’ll just look…mad. Check out those photos. I know I’m totally happy and content in them, but you’d never know by looking at me. I look like any second I’m going to…read more

Answer 1 Question To Find Focus For Your Finances

Posted by in Budgeting, Communication, Debt, Giving, Investing, Saving, Spending, Tools

Andrea and I just got back from a wonderful, much needed vacation. It wasn’t the most relaxing trip, though if I’m honest. There were no drinks with umbrellas in them, cabana boys, or even cabanas. And we certainly didn’t catch up on sleep. Instead, we kicked off the trip by waking up at 3am.Normally, I don’t like waking up early. Even though I’ve been getting up before the buttcrack of dawn for over a decade, it’s still a struggle. Most days the snooze button is my friend. But not this…read more

Personal Finance is Personal: A tale of two bags

Posted by in Communication, Spending

 This September will mark 10 years Andrea and I have known each other. We’ve seen a lot, been through a lot, and done a lot together in that time. So it takes a lot to phase us or surprise us. A few weeks ago, though, something strange happened that caught us both off guard. Without talking about it or coordinating we both bought $300 bags!I figure you’re having one of two reactions. “Oooo, what kind of bag? Tell me more, tell me more, tell me more!” or “What kind of…read more

What I learned getting lost in Singapore

Posted by in Budgeting, Communication, Tools

Back in the summer of 2006 I spent a few days visiting Singapore, a beautiful, modern city-sized country in southeast Asia. One day, I was wandering around the Little India neighborhood with some friends. It was getting late and we wanted to head back to where we were staying. But first, we wanted to visit a store we’d seen earlier in the day. There was only one problem. We remembered where the store was, but soon realized we had no idea where we were. Not my finest moment.  😳 We were hopelessly…read more

How I made my wife cry on our honeymoon

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True story. I made my wife cry on our honeymoon. And I’m not talking about happy tears. No, those came four days earlier when we exchanged our vows. But sad tears. Scared tears. Trembling with fear, snot-pouring-out-of-her-nose tears.I didn’t mean to. Lord knows I didn’t want to. All I ever wanted was to be a good husband. But there she was, my beautiful bride, bawling her eyes out. And it felt like my fault.So what happened?Without even realizing it I hit a nerve. We talked about money.I know what you’re…read more